How does one succeed in life?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Making more friends is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Are there legal obligations to report the known whereabouts of a missing person that doesn’t want to be found?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

My stepmother has banned me from the family. Can she legally keep me from going to my father's funeral?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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That's it for today.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Hangs out with loser friends.

What is the difference in effectiveness between an infrared sauna blanket and a regular one?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

What I need from you?

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

What are your top ten favorite K-pop albums?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

Ask yourself: